At the start of relationship, you thought this person as your would be lifetime partner. Never in your wildest dream that this day will come. The day where this person would say this line, I want a break up. Ouch!
Oh, sure, each and everyone of us, one way or another, have heard that line before. May it be the exact phrase stated above or the other versions. Any how, whatever versions you might have heard, they are only mean one thing: BREAK UP.
Breaking up with some one always cause pain. Thats the truth. Lets face it, when you are having relationship with someone, breaking up with this person is the farthest thing in your mind.
But the break up is not the only trouble here. There is a lot more. It is called the post break up era. What are you going to do? How are you going to cope with it?
Definitely, you will get hurt. You will feel this rip in your heart that all you want to do is cry. You will get affected that you dont want to eat, you dont want to go to work and so on.
Its okay for several days or even months, but years? No it cant be. You dont have to go on like that. You have to face the fact that you are not with him now. The first thing you can do, take your time.
The first thing you should do is take your time. Take it slowly. You just cant easily annihilate all the memories of that person.
Make yourself busy by going to your work. Its better that you are doing something while you are nursing yourself from that break up rather than staying in your room and sulk in self pity.
Instead of staying in your bedroom, with chocolate as your company, why not go to the gym. You just dont keep yourself fit but this also an opportunity for you to interact with different people.
Discover yourself even though this journey is quite a handful for you, emotionally. Stay logical and sane as your pull yourself to get through.