So you’ve just heard through friends that your ex boyfriend, who you’ve never really got over, is dating someone else and hearing it cuts deep. Your first thought is that you must win ex boyfriend back before he gets too serious with this other girl.
Well take it easy and don’t go rushing head long into this, what you have on your side that the current girlfriend does not have is history! In your effort to win ex boyfriend back remember, history can sometimes over ride everything else and take precedence.
There were surely times when the both of you enjoyed each others company and were happy at some point. Don’t assume all the memories were happy because the relationship didn’t end happily either. Give yourself a favor and stop daydreaming about your fantasies and keep the thoughts as real as you remember it.
The memories that came back to you can make you feel confused about getting your ex boyfriend to return to you. For this reason, you can call your friends and ask them what they think. Tell them you want to hear the truth about their opinions. After getting their opinions, it is now up to you to decide whether or not to pursue your ex boyfriend.
While strolling down memory lane, you find yourself in a predicament wherein it was your attitude that brought the relationship down. In that case, you need to change your behavior. It is completely useless if you get back together with your ex boyfriend when the attitude he left you for is still there when both of you reconcile. So you need to at least change that attitude.
If you really want to get back with him then you should call him or make any other communication with him. Ask him to meet you in a place that is neutral. Just be calm when asking him. Do not frighten him by giving a hint of something big to come his way.
When the meet pushes through then you may want to tell him of how you were able to think things over during the time both of you walked separate paths. Tell him you have already arranged things and you still have strong emotions for him and a second chance would be all you want.
Give him room to elaborate his side of the story. This is a relationship and both of you must agree to some things to make it work. If you don’t hear what you want to hear at least listen them out. Do not get emotional since it will lead to problems later on. So it would be best if you give him some time and let him make his decisions. Wait for his call do not rush him. All you have to do now is wait.