If you have just experienced a break up, things might be rough. In particular if you want your ex girlfriend back. The first thing that you need to do is calm down. Relax, chill out and start to make a plan.
One important aspect of your plan to get her back must be to create a strong emotional bonding experience between you and your ex girlfriend. Once you are nice and relaxed, and clear headed, start thinking of some emotionally charged date ideas. What is an emotionally exhilarating experience that you have been through? Lets consider an example.
You are at the convenience store picking up some milk, going about your business in the store, when two men enter the store in masks – just like the masks in Point Break. They are carrying weapons and demand that everyone hit the floor.
The woman beside you freezes like a statue, and doesn’t get down. One of the gunmen takes notice and begins to move towards her when you reach up, grab her hand and get her down. You hold her hand, look her right in the eye, and give her a nod. She squeezes your hand back. The men complete their robbery and leave the store. You feel adrenaline running through your body. It was a scary, but exhilarating experience.
The woman thanks you afterwards and gives you a sincere smile.
There is one certain outcome from the above experience… The woman will never forget you, and you will never forget her. It’s because the experience was extremely charged up to a high emotional level. Obviously it is not a good idea to commit any robbery with your woman (haha), but you do need to create an emotionally charged up date.
Do a crazy zip line together, or try bungee jumping. If you want to get really crazy, go sky diving. Ride a roller coaster, or take skating lessons. Learn to ride horses together. Try new and exciting sports together. Your date must have some strong emotions to create a bond around. It will help you re-establish a strong connection with your ex girlfriend.