Is there such a thing as the power of the feminine? Of course. As we shall discover, there is a lot of power that women have in the area of relationships. Women have intimacy skills that in general men do not.
How is it that women are “masters” at relationships? More specifically, how can it possibly be said of you, who may have a past “littered” with the bleaching bones of dead relationships and failed couplings? The reasons for this are twofold. First, you are connected to and processing Feminine energy, which has to do with Affinity and Connection. Secondly, you were raised differently than men.
Girls play with dolls. They play house. They have tea parties. This is no small thing. All over the world girls play with dolls in some form or other.
What’s the big deal? So what that girls play with dolls? What’s this have to do with feminine energy and relationship? Well, playing with dolls is playing at nurturing. You cuddle the doll, you empathize, you communicate with doll. You actually practice and play at caring for someone other than yourself.
Amazing! We have a worldwide culture where girls “play” at nurturing. Nurturing is a high feminine quality. Women get into the connection and expression of the Deep Feminine at a very early age. (Meanwhile, boys are playing with “toy” guns.)
Not only that, little girls play house and have imaginary tea parties. Again, this is remarkable. At an imaginary tea party girls (or a girl and her dolls) will sit around and pretend to drink tea or coffee and eat pretend (or real) cookies. While this is happening they are doing something else that is High Feminine.
They are communicating and connecting! Nesting, cooperating, nurturing, caring and bonding through communication are high feminine qualities. You grew up with them. You played at them when you were a child. As a young girl, you developed and practiced these skills. Boys, in general, do not.
The lesson right in front of us is that women have a lot of relationship skills. If you are a woman, use your innate knowledge. Train your mate to connect and bond and nurture. If you are a man, understand that women know a lot about relationships that you may not. Learn from them. You will both benefit.