So you think that everyone cheat? This is just not so, and just because you are a Christian, it does not make you immune from what your boyfriend, girlfriend, spouse does on the side. I wish it was not true, but it does happen, and more often than you think.
As many as 22% of women are cheated on by their loving boyfriends or husbands. That is a pretty high number. On the contrary, only about 12% of women cheat on their men. Go ahead and give yourself a pat on the back ladies, you deserve it. Most of you are faithful Christian women.
Many fellow Christians have the feeling that they will not have thee problems that their non-Christian counterparts will have. This could not be further from the truth. Being in a Christian relationship can make things more complicated if anything. Being a modern Christian you have choices and you can decide how to live your life.
Suspecting that your Christian boyfriend has been cheating can be devastating. You may have thought that since you were in a Christian relationship that you would be safe from all these problems. But as you are seeing, this is not the truth. You first need to find out if your relationship is worth it to you to save. Once you decide what you are going to do with your relationship you can make better decisions. Women wondering about their boyfriend’s infedility need to step back and think about what is going on.
There are many questions you can ask yourself when you suspect that your partner is cheating on you. If you really want to find out the truth and decie what you are going to do about your relatoinship then asking yoursself these questions becomes very important. Has your boyfriend started to work out heavily when he used to not work out at all. Of course people change and you need to determine whether it is a good change in your Christian boyfriend or if it is someting that you need to worry about. Has your boyfriend become emotionally and spirtiually distant. Did you used to go to church every Sunday with you but now he does not want to. Your spiritual life with your boyfriend is just as important as your mental relationship with him. Did he used to pay a lot of attention to you, send you gifts and d special little things for you buut now he does not? You may have a problem if you answer yes to any of these questions. It is up to you to decide what you will tolerate.
You need to start asking a lot of questions aboout your partner. First thing, where has he been or what is he doing? Have you ever thought about showing up at his work and surprisingg him with a nice dinner or something? Do you think he will be there? You would be surprised what you could find out at the office. Is there a sense of secrecy at the office?